July 14, 2011
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Just wait, you can’t find love, it finds you.





I once had a grip on everything, it feels better to let go.

I gues you could say I’ve changed but you never really knew me in the first place.

Nothing is the same anymore. The looks aren’t the same; the bond is not the same. Nothing is the same. I know we’ve fought to stay strong for a while, but sometimes I feel that being strong would mean letting go. So maybe one day, we won’t pretend anymore. So maybe one day, it will be okay again. That’s all I want. I don’t care what it takes; I want to be okay again.

You know me too well. When I said I didn’t love you, you looked at me and said, “Bullshit, you’re just running away.”

They don’t believe our love is real, cause they don’t know how real love feels.

You were never suppose to mean this much to me.

Think that the only reason why people hold onto memories so tight, for so long is cause memories are the only things that don`t change when everything else does.

Life changes. You get it all lined up just the way you like it and then something beyond your control comes along and bumps you off center. How nice it would be if you could get everything just the way you want it and say “okay, now.. stay!” But nothing stays the same. You grow up, make friends, lose friends, go to college, lose track of people, meet new ones and sometimes you ask yourself why. But all I can tell you is that every single experience you go through changed you in some way. Every new person who comes into your life changes you. Every moral dilemma or emotional experience you come up against changes you. It’s your job to decide how.

In this life we’re guaranteed only two things, to live and to die. How we choose to do it, well that’s up to us.

When a person cannot answer directly to your question, probably the answer is too painful for you to know or too hard for them to admit.

If one day you realize I haven’t talked to you in a while, just remember you were the one who pushed me away.

When you have only two minutes to say goodbye to the person you love most in the world, and you don’t know when you’ll see each other again, you can become log-jammed with the effort to say and do and settle everything at once.

Leave love to your heart. Don’t let your head question it.

Yeah, I did see where the people dissing me were coming from. But, it’s like, anything that happened in the past between black and white, I can’t really speak on it, because I wasn’t there. I don’t feel like me being born the color I am makes me any less of a person.

It’s funny how when you finally get over someone, you start seeing them in a whole new perspective. It’s like you’re looking at them through the eyes of your best friend; & you realize, he’s nothing special. He’s just another ordinary boy.

Being beautiful is more than how many boys look at you, or how much makeup you wear. It’s about what you live for. It’s about what defines you. It’s about the heart that you have and what makes you special. It’s about those little quirks that make you, you. It’s about knowing that you are a creation of God, created in His image. It’s about shining for Him, no matter what else is going on around you. It’s about going against the flow, and living out what you honestly think. And that is a beautiful thing.

Are you here because you need someone or because you need me?

I finally realized that cutting people from my life does not mean I hate them, it simply means, I respect me.

Some people can just move on, you know? They mourn and cry and then they’re done with it or at least appear to be. But to me, I don’t know. I didn’t want to fix it; I didn’t want to forget it. It wasn’t something that was broken, it was just something that happened. And I’m finding ways, everyday, of working around it. I’m respecting and remembering it, but I’m getting along with my life at the same time.

The essence of life is not being perfect, impressing people, or succeeding at everything. The essence of life is simply making mistakes and learning from them, surrounding yourself with people that love you when you’re being yourself, and getting through the failures so that you can continue improving.

If you wanna fix what you did, stop talking about it, just do it.

I never understood the whole “opposites attract” phrase. If two people are different and have different interests, why would they get along so well? But then I thought about it. “I love you for everything I’m not.” So, basically, two opposite people come together to fill in the missing parts of themselves.

Things don’t always work out the way we plan them too & in the midst of the confusion, we wonder how things could ever be right again. But things have a way of working out & sometimes better than we ever dreamed they could.

Watching you walk out of my life does not make me bitter or cynical about love, but rather makes me realize that if I wanted so much to be with the wrong person, how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along.

You can’t put a limit on anything. The more you dream, the farther you get.

When I think about love, I think about when I was little and I automatically knew what I wanted. Love just like that. Like your favorite color comes to you, or how a smile comes across your face. It should just hit you and you should know that’s how it’s supposed to be.

It seems there’s always something right there to remind me, like a silly joke or something on the TV. It ain’t easy. When I hear our song, I get that same old feeling.

If you want a happy ending, that depends, of course, on where you stop your story.

If you’re sorry, you don’t sit there and make excuse after excuse.

As in friendship so in love, we are often happier from ignorance than from knowledge.

Time together is just never quite enough. What will it take to make or break this hint of love. We need time, only time.

Life’s hard. It’s supposed to be. If we didn’t suffer, we’d never learn anything.

You know, you thought you were such a strong girl and you are, you just can’t see it. You thought he broke you. Some ways he did, but if you really think about it, you’re a stronger person than you were six months ago. it’s okay to cry yourself to sleep. It’s okay not to want to let go, but you know you need to. You don’t have to get another boyfriend right away. Just wait, you can’t find love, it finds you.

Sometimes I think I need to get away, pack all my things, get on a plane, head off alone one sunny day, never look back at the town I called home; maybe visit California, I hear it’s nice there in the summer; but all the waves and coastline and sunset shores would just make me miss you more.

There is no person in the world who is made to handle every punch that’s thrown at them. We aren’t made that way. In fact, we’re made to get mad, upset, sad, be hurt, stumble and fall. We aren’t suppose to be able to handle everything. But that’s what makes us stronger in the end, by learning from the things that hurt us the most.

In less enlightened times, the best way to impress women was to own a hot car. But women wised up and realized it was better to buy their own hot cars so they wouldn’t have to ride around with jerks.

Screaming and saying fuck a lot doesn’t really get your point across. Sometimes silence is the most violent option to choose.

It’s like that moment right when you wake up and you are half asleep, where anything from your dreams can be real, but then you wake up and suddenly nothing is real anymore.

I wasn’t asking for a four page apology letter, I just wanted you to realize what you put me through. That’s all I wanted.

Just because you deserve it doesn’t mean they are going to give it to you. You have to fight for it.

Here’s a toast. To the good days, the better friends. The ones that you just can’tlive without. The people that have taught you how to party. How to live. How to have a good time just sitting around. Here are to the people that no matter how bad things seem, are going to be there for you. To lean back on and catch you if you fall.

Celebrate we will. Because like is short but sweet for certain.

I’ve got this crazy idea we forgot about what everyone else wants for us and decide for ourselves what we want our lives to be.

Just be you, because life’s too short to be anybody else.

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about taking chances and how it’s really just about overcoming your fears. Because the truth is, every time you take a big risk in your life, no matter how it ends up, you’re always glad you took it.

Love is full of interruptions and complications.

I saw you walking by today. Your hair was longer and you might have been a little taller. But it was still you, and you still smiled at me, and I still couldn’t speak.

Obstacles are put in our way to see if what we want is really worth fighting for.

believe in youself and all that you are. know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle.

You don’t know a good thing until they’re gone and they’ve found someone else.

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Comments (9)
Watching you walk out of my life does not make me bitter or cynical about love, but rather makes me realize that if I wanted so much to be with the wrong person, how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along.
-Favorite quote like ever <3 so true!!
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