December 8, 2011
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Everybody deserves a second chance, but not for the same mistake.
Be happy in front of people who don’t like you, it kills them inside.
Never lose perspective. Be grateful and appreciative. Be thankful and giveback. Always remember where you came from and how you got there.
There are moments in life that you wish with all your heart you could take back. Like, just erase from existence. If you could, you’d erase yourself right out of existence too, just to make that moment not exist.
Always accept and feel comfortable with your flaws, that way no one can ever use them against you.
Dont ask my opinion and get mad when I tell you the truth.
Holding back your feelings may save you from others, but it will never save you from yourself.
That’s the thing about lessons. You always learn them when you don’t expect them or want them.
Before you assume, learn the facts. Before you judge, understand why. before you hurt someone, feel. Before you speak, think.
Some days the whole world seems upside down. And then somehow, and improbably, and when you least expect it, the world rights itself again.It’s hard to accept the truth when the lies were exactly what you wanted to hear.
Real girls aren’t perfect, perfect girls aren’t real.
It sucks, you know? When everything is doing fine then, it all crashes again. And the worst part is, I really don’t want to try and put it all back together again, but I have to.
I don’t believe in failure. Because simply by saying you’ve failed, you’ve admitted you attempted. And anyone who attempts is not a failure. Those who truly fail in my eyes are the ones who never try at all. The ones who sit on the couch and whine and moan and wait for the world to change for them.
Take chances. Take a lot of them. Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom, it always ends up just the way it should be. Your mistakes make you who you are. You learn and grow with each choice you make. Everything is worth it. Say how you feel, always. Be you, and be okay with it.
Sometimes it’s hard to say no when you really mean yes, it’s hard to close your eyes when you really want to see, it’s hard to forget when you really can’t and the hardest is to go when you really want to stay.
We’re not perfect. Any of us. We make mistakes, we screw up. But then we forgive and move forward.
Beware of getting what you want. It’s bound to disappoint you.
Somewhere out there is something better, something worth fighting for.
If someone really wanted you, they’d actually put some effort into trying to get your attention and make sacrifices for you. They won’t just tell you they want you; they’d show you in every little way possible that they want you.
You know, sometimes things do go the way they’re supposed to. It’s not unheard of.
Because you’re young, you’re torn between a world of hate and a world of dreams. So much to lose, so much to gain, so much to fight for, so much to change.
Don’t take someone for granted just because every time you push them away, they’d always come running back. Because one day, they won’t.
We may not be able to stop all evil in the world, but I know that how we treat one another is entirely up to us.
People don’t look at your personality first. People judge you automatically by your looks and then try to get to know your personality. But the second they don’t like your looks, they don’t get to know you. That’s how reality is.
If you find something that can keep you happy with just yourself and be confident in who you are, then the rest of it shouldn’t matter.
Don’t do something because it makes sense, do it because it feels right.
Someday you will realize that you’ve done too much for someone, that the only next possible step to do is to stop. Leave them alone. Walk away. It’s not like you’re giving up, and shouldn’t try. It’s just that you have to draw the line of determination from desperation. What is truly yours would eventually be yours, and what is not, no matter how hard you try, will never be.
Heaven’s not a place where you go when you die; it’s that moment in life when you actually feel alive. So live for the moment now.
Letting go. Its difficult for us in so many ways and so many levels, yet life calls upon us to do it over and over again. Letting go is a part of out growth process. We cannot move onto the new while continuing to cling to the old.
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