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Friday, January 06, 2012

Open your mind before your mouth

 

I think we spend too much time wondering why we're not good enough. We waste too much time putting ourselves down, that we don't ever stop to see that we are good enough. We spend too much time with our heads down and hearts closed, and never get a chance to look up from the ground and see that the sun is shining and tomorrow is another day.


Serious relationships are not something anyone should really be actively looking for because sometimes, the best relationships happen only by accident. I was beginning to see, though, that the unknown wasn’t always the greatest thing to fear. The people who know you best can be riskier, the words they say and the things they think have the potential to be not only scary but true, as well.


The best gift I would definitely give any hater is a mirror so they can see themselves before judging me.

The essence of life is not being perfect, impressing people, or succeeding at everything. The essence of life is simply making mistakes and learning from them, surrounding yourself with people that love you when you're being yourself, and getting through the failures so that you can continue improving.


With a lot of success, comes a lot of negativity.

 You and I were different. We came from different worlds, and yet you were the one who taught me the value of love.


I deserve way better than what I settled for.

This life is what you make it. No matter what, you`re going to mess up sometimes. It`s a universal truth. But the good part is, you get to decide how you`re going to mess it up.


Don’t you hate it when people make a joke about you, about something that you are actually incredibly insecure about and they don’t realize it, but every laugh feels like a stab in your chest, because it hurts so much and brings up memories you’d rather forget. But you can’t say anything, because then people would know your weaknesses. They’d know how insecure you really are. So instead you just laugh it off, and hide the pain you feel inside. 

You're beautiful. It's society that's fucked up.

 You know what the best feeling in the world is? Having a best friend, that one person who loves you & never judges you no matter what you matter how badly you mess up. Someone who you have endless conversations with and can communicate by just using your eyes. That one person who just walks in your house, opens the fridge and grabs whatever they want out. Lastly it’s that person who knows so much about you that they could ruin your life in a second.  But you trust them with your life and you know that they will never ever do that no matter what.


I'm thinking that sometimes you just have to make the decision to be happy. Just realize that things aren't ever what you hoped they'd be. Not ever. For anybody. The only thing that separates one kind of person from another is that there are some who stay angry about it and there are some who accept what comes their way.


When I’m with you, I act different. In a good way of course. I smile more and laugh more. I don’t have to pretend everything is okay when it’s really not. With you, I can drop the fake smile and put on a real one. I don’t feel hurt and alone when I’m with you. Instead, i feel safe and loved. You’re easy to talk to, and you listen to me. I don’t have to worry about holding back with you. I don’t feel self conscious. I don’t ever feel insecure or sad. You show me that you really do care, and you’re not just pretending. I really appreciate your company, because with you I’m different. With you, I’m happy.


I'm single, simply because I can't find someone who's worth my time.

Look around and you’ll see that at times it feels like no one really cares. It gets me down, but I’m still going try to do what’s right. I know that there’s a difference between sleight of hand and giving everything you have. There’s a line drawn in the sand, I’m working up the will to cross it, and I hope that I will never let you down.


I know this is hard to believe, but she cared. She cared a whole fucking lot about you. She's not perfect, she knows that, but she loved you, remember that. She still does. She probably still will, after she leaves and she goes her way, she's still gonna fucking care.

Don't you worry beautiful, one day you're going to be able to wake up and not even think about him.


Do I get bonus points if I act like I care?


Your smile says you're happy, but it's cheaper than your words. And your silence speaks almost clearly, but I swear we can make this work.


I refuse to live my life by your standards.


When you tell someone something bad about yourself, you're scared they won't love you anymore. But then you get surprised because not only do they still love you, but they love you even more.


For the first time, I've found someone I hate leaving. I've found someone that I can't get enough of. I've found someone that accepts me for who I am & doesn’t tell me I need to change. I've found someone who I can fall madly in love with.


1990-1999: The last generation with common sense.


I’m not sure what in the hell MW3 stands for, but unless it’s Margarita Wednesdays for $3, I’m not interested.


Roses are red. Trash is stinky. Why is your dick the size of my pinky?


All that I ever wanted was to be worth something, worth something to someone, worth their time, their energy, love, their money, worth someone’s everything, but I always seem to come up short.


When you stop chasing the wrong things, you give the right things a chance to catch you. 


It can’t be any harder than this. I mean, if I had known the last time I saw you would be the last time, I would have stopped to memorize your face, the way you move, everything about you. If I had known the last time we kissed would have been the last time, I never would have stopped.


I guess the reason I think I'm nothing is because no one has ever fought for me. I believe that if I was really, truly, worth it, that somewhere along this road, someone would've fought for me to stay, but instead, I always wound up walking away.


Having someone to sit beside you is nice. Having someone to wipe your tears away is great. Having someone to hug you to sleep at night is wonderful, but trust me, being that someone to somebody feels even better.


Copying isn't the highest form of flattery. It's fucking pathetic.


If you spent less time bitching about your life, you’d probably enjoy it more.


Have you never noticed that he's not the one who makes her strong? Her friends are the ones who make her strong when he makes her weak.


Smile. It could cheer up people around you and also irritate those haters who wish you to be sad and down.


Don't sweat it, just remember, diamonds can only be made under pressure.


It’s very easy to confuse a physical attraction with a real connection. You can tell by the kiss. You know, the other stuff, the sex, if he’s handsome or not, doesn’t matter. All that matters is the kiss.


Nobody notices what I do until I don't do it.


If someone really wanted you, they’d actually put some effort into trying to get your attention and make sacrifices for you. They won’t just tell you they want you, they’d show you in every little way possible that they want you.


Speak your mind or shut your mouth.


You’re probably thinking I’ve forgotten all about you by now, but that’s far from it. I have missed you every waking day and my heart still hurts, but I’m getting better. I continue to smile and still go on without you. I know I have missed you, but I have kept it all inside of me,only for me to know. I still wonder about your doings, how you are, what you’re doing, what we used to talk about, to the laugh in your voice, just everything.I miss it all. However, I feel that part of us ending was for the best because everything happens for a reason. Should destiny put us into a crossing road in the future, that is when I will see you again. Until then, remember this: no matter what, even through the screaming fights, the disagreements, mistakes,and the tears we’ve cried, never, ever did I give up on you, so if you ever need a helping hand, do not hesitate to ask. I may be far away, but I will always be in reach.


Don't even worry about people who don't care enough to worry about you.


That's the thing about people who mean everything they say. They think everyone else does too.

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"I think we spend too much time wondering why we're not good enough. We waste too much time putting ourselves down, that we don't ever stop to see that we are good enough. We spend too much time with our heads down and hearts closed, and never get a chance to look up from the ground and see that the sun is shining and tomorrow is another day"

This quote just follows what I do everyday which sucks...I need to start changing that (spending time whether I am good or not).

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